Tips develop independent attitude

Posted by Imam Larh on Thursday, 1 March 2018

A. Developing Self-Confidence As we know that human beings are special beings when compared to other creatures. 

The man has all the advantages and power. Humans are not just different from other creatures, but fellow humans also have differences. Differences affect his behavior. For example, there are strong human physical and mental and some are weak and this will affect their workability. 

Moreover, those who have been letting their imaginative sleeping power have to be awakened. Those who use their imaginary power or are influenced by a negative state of mind must be in the fox immediately, even if they need to be thrown away. To change this is not easy, they should be given a first understanding of what they are trying to accomplish, what they are for, how to achieve them, and other things related to the development of self-belief. 

To provide that understanding requires ways of thinking systematic, practical, and creative. That is the way of thinking that must be owned by an entrepreneur in his development. Feelings of confidence can only be felt by the concerned in the form of maturity of the heart to face the task to be done. How far his heart is steady and sure can do a job will mark how far his confidence.

B. Developing Self-Confidence in Yourself

> Duties and Self Confidence
Confidence or Self Confidence is a blend of attitudes and beliefs of a person in the face of a task or job. In practice, such self-confidence is an attitude and a belief to start, do, and accomplish a task or job that must be faced. Confidence is the personal nature of a person and is very relative, either between a person with another person or on someone, but different tasks or jobs that face. 

A person may have great confidence to do a job, such as driving a car, but his confidence may be lost if he is forced to fly a jet fighter. A person may have high self-esteem in writing, but his self-esteem is less if he has to deliver it in a seminar. Conversely, there are also people who have a steady self when speaking, but often have difficulty or doubt and doubt if you have to write a text. 

Confidence is also dynamic, someone who originally had high self-esteem to drive a car, then decreased as it gets older or after a traffic accident. The age or health condition of a person can affect the level of confidence in question. 

In general, older people, especially those who have passed through half their ages, have less confidence in physical skills activities such as driving a car, jumping, jumping, climbing, and other similar activities, but on the contrary, increasingly older age gives to high self-esteem to address various nonphysical problems although it may be relatively complex. This may be due to his considerable experience and relatively mature soul in the face of various trials and problems.

> Success and Failure
Factors that can affect the increase or reduction of one's self-confidence is a failure or success in implementing and completing a task or job. The possibility of failure or success in executing and completing a job is largely determined by the level of ease or difficulty of the work concerned and by one's ability level. 

The more difficult a job has to be accomplished, the greater the likelihood of failure. However, if a difficult job can be completed properly, then the higher the confidence itself. The more difficult the job, the higher the level of trust is required. In an effort to boost confidence, one must try as much and as often as possible to make a success. 

For that reason, one should often train himself gradually and periodically or regularly to avoid failure. The level of difficulty faced should not soar in the sense of too far from the ability. Ability and confidence are mutually related, maybe someone is able to complete a difficult job if he ever finishes a similar job he has ever completed, with the same level of difficulty or almost the same. 

A person's confidence level will increase or increase if often faced with the completion of jobs whose level of difficulty increases, and he/she is able to finish it well.

> Self Confidence
One's self-confidence is determined by the ability to start, execute, and accomplish a job well in the sense of its planning, systematic, technical implementation, time efficiency, cost, and effort, as well as the final results obtained. 

If one can start, execute, and complete a job in an orderly, agile, steady, and smooth manner, then it shows that he can do the job with confidence. In addition, the factors of tranquility, perseverance, and excitement in working the work stage, directly or indirectly, can show a person's confidence. 

Lesser or unstable confidence can lead to awkward, choppy and unsatisfactory workings. In an effort, avoid, prevent or decrease confidence, then one must be good at choosing a job or how to complete the work it faces. Do not be too eager to do a "long jump" in a short time if the ability or experience is beyond the limits of his ability. 

This should not be interpreted as frightening (discourage) someone ambitious to achieve great success, it is true that great ambition is necessary to be successful, but should the ability of a person developed through the exercises and experience of self.

> Mental Attitude and Self Confidence
Confidence and the courage to take risks in facing a task challenge do not escape the influence of existing confidence. Optimism and courage beyond the limits of ability are often called over-optimistic, too bold, or reckless. 

Therefore, optimism and risk-based courage should be based on perfectly mature calculations and adjusted to the degree of confidence. Confidence is a strong foundation for improving one's work and ideas. And every work produced will grow and increase confidence. 

Confidence directly or indirectly, whether consciously or not will affect a person's mental attitude. Ideas, initiative, initiative, creativity, courage, perseverance, hard work spirit, work excitement, work, and so on, are much influenced by the level of self-confidence that mingle with knowledge, skills, and his vigilance.

> Faith Elements
Confidence and courage with regard to one's self-esteem also grow because of faith. Someone will be confident and dare to do a job if deemed the work is true and maybe even noble. In this case, the element of faith in God plays a very important role. 

The belief that God is All-Merciful, Merciful, Most Merciful and Most Helpful will strengthen the confidence of a believer because it will reduce even dispel doubts, doubts or in doing a job as long as it does not contradict His command. 

Faith, gratitude, and praying are an inseparable part, even the very foundation of self-confidence. Be grateful, in addition to giving a chance to someone to explore the grace of what God has given so that it can be utilized, as well as to be able to feel satisfied with every result of his work. 

Pray gives a lot of inner peace and encouragement to karsa but must be followed by concrete action if there is indeed a real desired result. It is similar to a thought or idea (idea) that will only be realized if the concerned try and do the real action to make it happen.

> Self Awareness
Based on the above description, it should try to evaluate each self, what weaknesses have been felt. Begin with easy and new steps after that step into the increasing difficulty level. Make sure that we can handle it by step by step. 

Do something to accompany the prayer and ask for His blessings and guidance. In introspection when there are shortcomings, try to be able to improve yourself by making a question that is addressed to self-personal among others as follows:
  1. I will see to it that my words are as true as what I do.
  2. I will fulfill all my obligations, whatever happens.
  3. I will familiarize myself and will give the explanation details carefully and correctly.
  4. I will fulfill exactly all the promises have been uttered.
  5. I will not promise anything before I think about it first, but if I have promised, then I will keep the promise.
  6. I realize and realize the responsibility I bear.
  7. I made preparations to deal with emergency situations.
  8. In all the talks and questions I am trying to find the truth.
  9. I focus and put my thoughts, my time and my ability to one goal.

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